Off To Shillong..........

Off to shillong
Life is much easier if ur always travelling around ... You get a destination that you have to reach... for people who do not hav a direction to go in they get one...It makes them feel that yeah they are headed some wher ...It tends to stop you from thinking about things that genrally you would have been brooding upon....

Its been like 12 years since I have been to that place ... its always nice to go to places yoy have been before ...people like seeing things which give them a feeling of nostalgia.. it makes u feel funny inside ......guess we jus love that feeling... thats what makes us attached to things which otherwise have no value, houses ... cars ..bikes etc etc ....what is it to me if I make four walls around me an call it a home but then thats what gives you a sense of belonging thats what makes you feel grounded to things in life ...it gives you a sense of security ....Seeing things all over again .....its jus that the thrill of feeling the same emotions that u have had all that time ago...its a different kinda high

Expectations !!!!!!!!!!!

Lifer's is all bout expectations ....the day you are born into this world people start expecting things from you an u start expecting things right back .....Bigger the want bigger the desire ..bigger the desire bigger the expectation an bigger the expectation bigger the let down .....Through out your life either you are being measured up to some kind of expectations or you your self measure somebody else on your expectation .....


Its in the human psyche to expect things without realizing that you start to do it its more of a subconscious thing .... i guess as they say you don't expect things you if just don't care ,I on the other hand disagree with the thing ...i guess the biggest thing that you can do is not expect things at all.....you just be happy in a bubble with yourself ..... I say do away with expectations ....just be selfless an give more then what you get ....wont life be a much more easier place...i guess bout time the baby says "hello stop expecting an just let me be " ....but easier said then done ....everything has it pros an cons its like becoming unemotional nothing bothers you an if things don't bother you they wont hurt you ...but then when people don't expect things from you dsnt it makes matter worse because then you realize that you don't matter to them anything that you do dsnt have an effect....its a tight rope between having no expectation's an just being happy with what you get ....having no expectations doesn't always mean you don't care does it .......

About time i stop this rant ......i guess by now people would have started to expect that I'm loony....